I love these series of photos I found from Style Me Pretty today. This looks like the perfect way to cap off a wedding in my book, or perhaps a fantastic trash the dress session?
Wedding dress codes are always a tricky thing. Casual. Cocktail. Dressy Casual. Semi-formal. Black Tie Optional. Beach Chic. What does it all mean?!? Sometimes it feels like you need a translator just to go shopping. Most often the required attire (say that 10 times fast!) is intended to match the wedding style. While it may not be practical to call up the bride and groom to ask them what they mean, you can look to clues in the invitation to help understand their “definition” of dress. For example, is the wedding in a church or house of worship? Is it outdoors or indoors? Is it at a country club or reception hall? These hints can help clue you in to what “semi-formal” really means.
In the meantime, here is a quick roundup of common wedding attire dress codes to help you along the way:
Anything goes with this dress code, though depending on the time of day and the venue, guests should still be weary of donning jeans, shorts or tank tops.
Him: Business casual, polo and khakis or even a sport coat or sweater Her: casual cocktail dress, sun dress, separates
Beach Formal/Beach Chic
A dress code with the word “beach” included can be intended as a warning to dress for the elements. Beach formal implies that while you are outdoors, and in the sand, the couple still intends to have a more formal atmosphere for the event. In some locations, especially here in Miami, Beach Chic can also imply a “dress to impress” atmosphere for the guests.
Him: Summer suit (no flip flops or shorts) Her: formal sundress, dressy flats are OK
Semi Formal/Dressy Casual
Semi Formal attire is the most often used in the wedding scene, and when in doubt, use this style as a guide for any event. As the name states, Semi Formal is a more casual take to dress attire, offering a wider range of style options.
Him: A casual suit is appropriate, or think business casual: dress shirt and tie Her: Cocktail dress, formal sundress for daytime events, even a formal take on separates is fine
Formal/Black Tie Optional
This dress code indicates that the event is still a very classy affair, but doesn’t require quite so much etiquette as the forms below. It allows guests to go a bit more casual if they wish. Sometimes, you may even see “Creative Black Tie” which allows the guest to, well, ”get creative” with their color choices and accessories.
Him: Full suite or tuxedo if so desired Her: Long dress or dressy cocktail dress. A dressy suit is also appropriate
I often consider black tie as the jazzed up version of formal wear without the stuffy extras of white tie. Black Tie dress codes are also a good indication of an evening event and vice versa.
Him: A tuxedo is appropriate, or a dinner jacket, black accessories (tie, cummerbund) Her: long gown or a very dressy cocktail dress, neutrals are the way to go
This long forgotten style is the most formal of all dress codes. While we don’t see it too much in everyday affairs in the states (think White House, Formal Award Shows), a White Tie dress code tells the guest they need to dress their fanciest of fancies!
Him: Tuxedo, coat with tails, white accents (vest, shirt, bow tie, gloves), shoes without laces Her: floor length formal gown, be weary of loud colors
If you’re still left in the dark, don’t be afraid to speak up and ask questions. When in doubt, I advise leaning towards a dressier edge – it is better to be over dressed than under dressed! Plus, you can never go wrong with Semi-Formal attire!
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This weekend is all about relaxation for me as I am headed across the state to celebrate the wedding of one of my good friends from college and lay around on the beach for a few days. Sounds like heaven! In honor of a few lazy days I am also stepping away from the blog, but don’t worry my dears I have a fabulous guest post for you!
Natalie from Simplybridal.com shows us how to pair the perfect bouquet with the dress of your dreams. Simply Bridal is an online resource for custom made wedding gowns at great prices; taking the middle man out of your wedding dress experience. Their products have been featured on blogs such as Rock’n'Roll Bride, Style Me Pretty, and Wedding Chicks.
“Flowers are the sweetest things God ever made, and forgot to put a soul into.”
It comes as no great surprise that when a bride is planning her big day, she plans
everything so that they coordinate with each other.
Wedding dress? Check! Earrings? Check! Veil, shoes and other accessories?
Check, check and check!
You’d be surprised then, when it comes to the flowers, and suddenly, her favorite
flowers — pink roses — don’t match her favorite kind of dress or her favorite earrings.
In fact, altogether, the ensemble is nothing less than a mess.
Did you know, that certain flower arrangements match certain dresses and body
shapes? Let’s take a look at the 4 most common bouquet types (that I just learnt
about!) and see what’s best for you!
Cascade: The cascade bouquet is the most formal and traditional, with a rounded
top and a stream of flowers flowing in the bride’s hands, giving it a waterfall effect.
Larger flowers such as roses and orchids are generally the popular choice for
cascade bouquets. Cascade bouquets generally match sheath dresses.
Nosegay: The nosegay bouquet is a popular bouquet for bridesmaids. They are
simple and less dramatic as the cascade effect, but are great for brides opting for
the big ball gowns, so that it’s just not ‘too much’ with the big dress, big flowers
Arm Sheaf: An arm sheaf bouquet is cradled in the brides arms, and is made up
of long stemmed flowers such as orchids or long stemmed roses, perfect for taller
brides, or brides wearing empire or mermaid gowns.
Flower Bracelet: Although not as common as the others, the flower bracelet is
also known as a wrist corsages and are made of small bunches of flowers that are
then attached to an elastic band and slipped around the wrist. Although not very
common, it’s great for brides who’d rather not be holding a bouquet all day, and are
a great accessory for the short and flirty wedding dresses.
So whatever dress you have, there’s the perfect flower arrangement for you.
To pick out your perfect gown to match your flowers, check out our range of gowns
here:www.simplybridal.com. All dresses are courtesy of SimplyBridal.
The bridal bouquet is all about complimenting the dress and Natalie’s advice is perfect for brides! Thanks Natalie!
I’ll be sharing some sneak peaks from the wedding weekend on the beach so stay tuned! Happy weekend!
Hurricane season is in full swing which means summer is almost coming to an end. If you’re like me and itching to savor every last minute of summer sun you can, then I recommend plopping your lawn chair outside, grabbing a good book and one of these yummy cocktails to soak it all in. For serious though, I’ve been rounding up some delicious, last-summer-fling worthy cocktails (yes that exists!) that will end your season on a high note!
Frenchy Cocktail Yum! Courtesy of Intoxicology
Lemonade never tasted so good with this Petite in Pink spotlighted by Cosmopolitan
Fruity Frozen Vodka Slushy perfect for September heat via EAD living
The Clever Carrot makes this appealing White Peach Cooler
Torn between liquor and beer? A Ginger Shandy solves everything thanks to Delish.
The only thing missing now is a fabulous Caribbean backdrop. Wouldn’t that be nice!
If I knew how to make this post sing when you read it – I would have done so. What tune you ask?
Ba, Ba, Ba da ba da da, ba ba ba da, da dada dada da da.
In case you can’t tell that’s my (awful) interpretation of the Olympic march. I believe it is officially titled “Bugler’s Dream.” Save your eyeballs and treat your ears here. Regardless, I’m sure this song will be blasting from the TV set of anyone who knows what’s good on a Friday night. Or at least this Friday night.
I am on the verge of obsessed with the Olympics. I love them so much I have already registered all of my electronic devises for 24 hour streaming of every event online. Yes that’s a thing. Why you ask?
1. I love the Olympics because these athletes possess skills that I will never in this lifetime have a chance of attaining. That would require me getting off the couch. Any athletic talent I had went out the window LONG ago.
2. Any opportunity to sneak a peak into some of the greatest cities on this planet is a fantastic excuse to me to park my butt in front of the tv and not feel guilty.
4. How can you not love a sandy beach volleyball player or the half naked men in the pool? Eye Candy. All day. For two weeks.
5. Who isn’t amazed at competitive speed walking or professional canoeing? Yes those are also things.
But I digress. The impending festivities have my inspiration swirling and the next best thing to throwing an Olympic viewing party (yes this thought actually crossed my mind. I even went so far as to consider decor. It’s insane. I know) is to pretend to throw an Olympic party, or at least something similar.
In honor of the gold medals that will be handed out in the upcoming weeks I give you the gold wedding inspiration:
These first images were collected via Style Me Pretty. The gold can come through in small details whether it be a metallic cake, menu cards, studded shoes or soft tones in the flowers.
If you’re looking to make a bigger statement take a cue from the boards at Lover.ly and go bold with your invites, dress, or sequin linens:
I feel like I could even make a dress out of that linen it’s so beautiful. Either way you spin it, gold is glamorous and you can’t help but feel like a winner! Now, I must go make myself comfortable – it’s going to be a long, but glorious, three weeks!
It’s really a strange response to be scrolling through the latest blog post on your reader and suddenly stumble upon familiar images. While reading 100 Layer Cake today I came across a series of photos from a shoot that I recognized as “home.” “Wait, I think I know that fort, yes I definitely do. Wait, is that my beach?’ Though St. Augustine may not be my official home (close enough), it was home for this beautiful beach shoot inspired by the movie Princess Bride shot by Studio222 Photography.
The second I saw this photo shoot I just knew I had to share it. It’s so simple and modern but girly and glamorous all at the same time. Who knew one table could possess so many adjectives! I love the juxtaposition of the warehouse with the concrete and dark frame windows next to the light and airy tablescape. But let’s be honest, you had me at a sequin chevron. SWOON! Leave it to the gods at Style Me Pretty to find the gems.
Portland Inspiration Shoot:
Check out the full glam post here: Style Me Pretty
Today started off as a gloomy, tiresome Wednesday but thanks to a good friend I was quickly cheered up by a link she sent my way – an online story of a super cute couple’s relationship. I love a good emotional proposal story and this one does not disappoint. Jess is a graphic designer that some of you may be familiar with thanks to her Daily Drop Cap blog where she posts a new initial cap every day. I have been (sporadically) following this for a while because let’s be honest, I just love pretty typefaces.
Anyway, a website outlining their relationship was put together with all of its cute, emotional, design glory and you just need to check it out! All of the little snippets are filled with illustrations from friends, links to videos, photos and other details that help tell their story. Together these details act as their wedding invitation complete with RSVP envelope at the bottom. If it doesn’t put a smile on your face – well then I think there may be something wrong with you! So without further ado – enjoy! (and happy Hump Day!)
Well, as promised, it’s time to revisit the Ormond Beach Wedding. The professional pictures are in and they are fantastic. Seriously, there were so many beautiful images it was hard to pick out just a few to spotlight. The ceremony was held at Rockefeller Gardens with the reception following at Plantation Bay Country Club, both in Ormond Beach, Florida. Despite reports of thunderstorms we were blessed with clear skies and a nice breeze long enough for ceremony and pictures. All photos were taken by the talented AJ Neste who is such a blast to work with! (I apologize in advance for the oncoming photo overload!) Without further ado…let the ooh’s and ahh’s commence!
Using the forsythia blossom as inspiration Jaclyn and Ryan chose yellow, grey and white as their colors which were continued throughout the day. Guests were entertained with an acoustic guitar and cello during the ceremony by friends of the couple. All of the flowers were provided by Petals and Nature Scapes in Palm Coast and Parrish Designs of Miami. The reception was filled with willow and oncidium orchids, tulips, hydrangeas and calla lilies. Guests were greeted at the reception with a signature cocktail punch and a photo booth set up by the father of the bride. Shopping around for months, the bride found a vintage type writer through a friend so guests could write notes and well wishes to the couple. Guests were sent off with personalized bottles of olive oil put together by the bride and groom.
(From the bride) “They say it goes by quickly, but you can’t imagine. The waiting feels endless — especially when you are engaged for a year in a half — but the last few minutes soared by me before I could catch a breath. There was so much riding on one day, All of those tiny, minuscule details for a five-hour show. But I wouldn’t change a thing.
I was so incredibly nervous about all the details coming together. I had flowers for the reception coming from two places, and the ceremony flowers coming from another. The aisles were lined with bows handmade by a friend and petal cones that I threw together. I had a groomsman flying in the day before the wedding, without his suit, praying that Penny’s would have his size. It was chaos — brought together by one of my best friends, and wedding planner, myself & the groom, and my parents, who had been wonderfully helpful throughout the whole process.
So it came down to the final minute. I walked down the aisle. I said my vows. I took the obligatory photos and some rather hilarious ones. I rode in a limo to the reception. Danced to our song. Cut the cake. Smile and hugged like my life depended on it. And then it was over. It was a massive, yellow blur for the most part. I remember flying to St. Lucia for the honeymoon and thinking that I couldn’t wait to see pictures because I couldn’t remember how everything looked. I was praying that it all came together like I imagined.
It honestly wasn’t until I got to see the photos that I realized how perfect everything was. The flowers matched perfectly and created a beautiful backdrop. The DJ was fun and entertaining and the pictures of everyone on the dance floor show my friends and family having a fabulous time — including my 80-year-old grandfather. By the last photo of the night, Ryan & I have our heads pressed together and I look truly exhausted and truly blessed all at the same time. And that’s what I felt. Everything fell into place and I was surrounded by beautiful things & beautiful people for the whole night.”
All of the little details added up to a spectacular wedding! Congratulations again to Jaclyn and Ryan!